My Dad
The Bible says that if a man won’t work
neither shall he eat. One thing for certain, my Dad was never afraid of
work, and his family was never hungry. Throughout the whole time I lived
in his home I don’t remember my Dad ever calling in sick to work.
The Bible says that if a man won’t
provide for his own household he is worse than an unbeliever. Well its
true that Dad didn’t have us in Church every Sunday, and he may even
regret that now, but he surely provided for his family. I never knew
hunger as a kid, clothing and shelter were never concerns of mine. We
lived in the same house from the time I was 2, and I had the same parents.
It would be years before I realized that everyone was not so fortunate,
and even longer to realize the incredible value of these things, and the
great effort that it took to bring it about.
But my Dad was not a quitter. He was a
man who believed in finishing what he started, even when it was harder
than he thought it would be. He believed in doing what he said he would
do, because he said he would. He taught me how to fight for what I
believe in, even if it looked impossible to win. He never backed down as
long as he thought he was right, no matter how hard the challenge. When
the going got rough, I really don’t think Dad knew how to quit, even if he
wanted to.
The Bible says let us not love with
words and tongue, but with actions and in truth. My Dad didn’t express his
love with words often, but as I look back on his actions there is little
to be doubted. Not just his tireless example of hard work and providing,
but also the unexpected things that happen along the way. Like the time
the principle took my ring, I had thought Dad was going to be angry with
me, but I was busting with pride after he completely supported me and made
them back down. Right or wrong, an act of love. And also the time I got
expelled, and Dad got me put back in school, or when the 17 year old down
the street threatened me or the man next door offered to make me eat
a hammer, there was no mistaking whose son I was then. My Dad was willing
to defend me at any cost. Again when I needed help paying for a car
accident, dad was there with a lawyer, and with the funds I needed. Thanks
Dad.
My Dad taught me to tell the truth, to
never steal, and to stand up and defend those who were weaker than I. He
also taught me how to work with my hands, to never give up, never back
down from a challenge, to be proud of who I was, and to believe that I
could be anything I set my mind to become. He also taught me the value and
power of knowledge. He wanted his children to have a good education, and
was willing to suffer himself in order to see to it.
I believe that God knows the plans He
has for each of us, and has chosen us fathers uniquely equipped to prepare
us for those plans. As a man myself, when I look at the trials I’ve come
through and the victories I’ve won, so often I see the virtues and
character I learned from my Dad. It is those qualities that have made me
who I am. As I endeavor to serve the Lord Jesus Christ, I recognize the
God given integrity and determination I have learned from My Dad as a gift
from the Lord. Thank you Dad, I appreciate, respect, and love you.
